As Lane and I look ahead to marriage, we are setting ourselves up for a mindset of service. It all starts with our relationship with God, and spills over into our love for each other.
Christ must increase, I must decrease. Lane must become more important, I must become less important.
To live is Christ, to die is gain. I must die to myself and put Lane’s interests above my own.
To love is to lose In dying to my own ego, My love of self I loseTo love is to gain
In serving and loving him, His growth is my gain.
